Some of your happiest memories when I was a child were at family or school fireworks displays. Freezing cold, eating jacket potatoes, sparklers in hands and ‘oo-ing’ and ‘ah-ing’ over the pretty explosions which lit up the inky, night sky.
Whether you called it Guy Fawkes Night or Bonfire Night, November 5 was one of the few times each year we got together with family and friends.
Now you are older, with a rescue dog, cat or a child who has always been sensitive to loud noises, you are less keen on the night.
Especially as it no longer lasts just one evening but fireworks can generally be heard from now until January. But an outright ban, or even allowing them only at official events is nonsense.
At the moment, thosands of people have signed a petition to ban fireworks in public – which means the government will have to respond.
I won’t call these people fun police or killjoys as some people have, I can see why they want to put restrictions on fireworks displays.
As they say themselves, they ’cause alarm, distress and anxiety to many people and animals’.
What is needed instead though is better education on the danger of fireworks, tougher penalties for those misusing them and police cracking down on those who flout the rules, particularly those who give/sell them to under 18s.
If organising a garden display, just be a considerate human being.
Make sure your neighbours are aware, perhaps even invite them over.
It’s easy to let people know – most of us are on social media and there are plenty of local noticeboards you can post on to let people know if you plan to let fireworks off for a lengthy amount of time.
If not, knock a few doors, particularly if you have elderly neighbours and those with children or pets.
Choose low noise or quiet fireworks (yes, they do exist) as well as follow safety advice and take precautions before setting them off.
And don’t be a git and let them off past 11pm.
If we all followed these general rules it would probably help a lot.
Banning things rarely has the desired effect and will only mean that a ‘black market’ will open up which will make it even more dangerous and fireworks more likely to fall into the hands of youngsters and those who would act irresponsibly.
People point to the environmental damage caused by fireworks – perhaps then a green tax should be introduced to pay towards offsetting the damage caused?
And there are plenty of things which are more dangerous and/or cause more environmental damage than fireworks such as cars, dairy farming – should we also ban them?
We all have to live with things which annoy or upset us but we can’t go around and ban everything that upsets someone.
